A Very Good Friday

I'm ashamed to admit that lately I have been too self-absorbed. Being at home a lot will do that to a person! Today I entered the fold of beautiful people and was inspired by their zest for life.
We took the hour long drive to Onoway for a long overdue visit with my mother in law. As she lives in an assisted living facility I was concerned about her living conditions. Tim and I were greeted by a bright homey place. The facility reflected warmth and welcoming. We quickly found our way to Tim's mothers room. I was saddened how time has ravaged her. She is very thin, almost gaunt, and has lost use of one of her arms as a result of a stroke. She led us to the dining room where we could visit over coffee. On the way there she was happy to introduce us to her fellow residents.
Once we made our way to the dining room I felt as though I was entering someone's living room. The kitchen staff and residents bantered back and forth as though they were family. I know my mother in law to be an introvert with no interest in socializing. She immediately took part in the conversation and banter. Two ladies joined our table and we got into a lively discussion.  These spunky seniors have a debate club. They debate abortion and same sex marriage! 
For all intents and purposes, these people have lost their freedom. Many have lost the ability to move freely in the community. There is one meal served at dinner, they have no freedom to chosse what they want to eat. Despite this, they embraced the freedom they have to chose happiness, to cherish friendship and to enjoy life. I saw this change my mother in law to someone who is engaged with others. People in this circumstance have every right to become self-absorbed, but they didn't! What was meant to be a pleasant visit, was a true eye opener for me!
Xoxo