Yesterday I went on a shopping adventure! I was off with a friend to find her the perfect dress for her son's wedding. After several hours of trying on dresses it was time for a rest. We headed off to the food court for a rest and a snack. When we were sitting at our table a man approached us and asked for "money for food". We advised him we wouldn' give him money.. He went from table to table and was given a soda from a food vendor. As we were leaving I noticed that he was at a table where 2 young boys sat. He was hustling them for money. I noticed how uncomfortable they were and felt compelled to intervene.
I told him to leave, but he continued to ask the boys for money. His eyes were glazed and frantic. In my opinion it wasn't lunch he was jonesing for! He finally noticed my presence and became combative. Thankfully after tossing some salty language at me he left without incident.
What troubled me is that the food court was full of adults. Surely I couldn't have been the only one who noticed? What if this was a life threatening incident? Would anyone help? Tim and I love watching "What Would You Do" and are appalled at how people can stand by when someone else is in trouble. Granted, we fear these situations and worry about our own safety which is totally understandable. If the man had a gun, my reaction would have been different, but would still call for help.
My friend was concerned that I intervened. She accurately pointed out that he could have taken a swing at me or robbed me. Let's face it, physically I'm vulnerable. Despite this, I would do it again. As I was leaving the mall I saw the boys again and they thanked me for helping me out. Their relief and gratitude made my day. Maybe I intervened because let's face it, helping others is an awesome rush!
xoxo
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